Ādi Sankarabhagavatpāda in Bhaja Govindam asks a series of startling questions:
का ते कान्ता कस्ते पुत्रः... से लेकर अशोच्यानन्वशोचस्त्वं तक Ādi Sankarabhagavatpāda in Bhaja Govindam asks a series of startling questions: का ते कान्ता? कस्ते पुत्रः? कस्य त्वं? कः? कुत आयातः? तत्त्वं चिन्तय तदिह भ्रातः। "Who is your wife? Who is your son? Whose are you? Who are you? From where have you come? Reflect on the Truth, O brother." These questions are not attacks on family life. They are surgical instruments meant to cut through moha (delusion). The problem is not wife, son, kingdom, career, or duty. The problem is the false notion of possession. We imagine that people belong to us, while in reality all beings belong to the Supreme. A similar moment occurs in the Bhagavad Gītā. Arjuna stands before Bhīṣma, Droṇa, brothers, uncles, teachers, and friends. His vision is clouded by relationships. He sees only "my grandfather," "my guru," "my relatives." Therefore Kṛṣṇa begins not with battle strategy but with Ātma-Sāṅkhya. He effectivel...